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David's avatar

I’m taking my three kids, ages 14, 12, and 10, to Japan for a couple of weeks. One reason I chose Japan is that they’re old enough to begin noticing that another successful modern society can organize everyday life around norms and assumptions quite different from the ones they know in the United States, including the kind of attentiveness to context captured by the idea of “reading the air.”

I’d be interested in any advice from Hiroko or other readers about experiences, places, or even small things to pay attention to that might help kids this age notice and engage with that aspect of Japan, without turning the trip into a forced educational exercise.

Matthew's avatar

This seems to have a gap in there.

So if someone was writing a similar article about Germany (instead of Japan) and wrote "I recited the Pledge of Allegiance alongside the other students every day. But there’s no pledge of allegiance in German schools. The German flag wasn’t even displayed in any of my classrooms."...

...we would expect to see a sentence about how excessive flag waving patriotism in Germany is seen as reminiscent of the Nazis and the education system inculcates a culture of guilt and responsibility.

I don't expect to see a deep exploration of Japan's war guilt or lack thereof in this piece, but I do think the contrast with religiosity in Indiana leaves the mistaken impression that Japan never had a problem with monomaniacal devotion to something. It's like reading an article by a former heroin addict (who has been clean for decades) tut tutting someone about smoking marijuana. If they don't mention their own drug history, the article would come off as a little hypocritical.

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