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Chasing Ennui's avatar

Any advice on how to discuss things online without "shouting?" I have been "arguing on the internet" in some form or another for decades, first on LiveJournal, then in the comments of articles (mostly Matt Yglesias's Slate columns before Slate ruined its commenting system) and now on Twitter.

I do not think I am part of the perpetually discontent. I like to think that I mostly do it as a sounding board for my own thoughts (but I can't rule out the possibility that I'm a "'mansplainer[]' who just want to show off how clever [I am] or listen to [myself] talk.")

What are the the "best practices" for engaging online without becoming part of the problem you describe, short of just shutting twitter and going for a walk.

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Michael Haley's avatar

lots of good points here, the point about immunizing to pain and shouting is really important I think,. I also think it would help to round this out to look at what is good about twitter too. It is popular for a reason. For me, it is really the only place left where people who disagree with each other are actually talking to each other, however dysfunctionally as you point out. That matters.

Facebook used to be but my experience now is that people have withdrawn there almost completely into their silo's. It is hard to get insulted by people you know. When someone posts a political opinion, only people who agree respond, is my experience.

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